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5 WAYS HOW FRIENDSHIP IMPROVED MY LIFE
Belongingness and purpose Friendship reminds me that I truly belong and am loved in some circles. Especially for those coming from...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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CRYING (PART 2)
Do you have one of those days when you randomly experience this growing urge to break down and cry in the middle of a normal day? Or that...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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ARE YOU OKAY? (PART 1)
A friend calls me, “Are you okay?” they ask. The world stops for a second. What do I tell them? How do I tell them that I don’t know, but...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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VOLUNTEERING
In the middle of an earth-shattering pandemic, there is this consistent belief about how this might be the apocalypse or the end of human...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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DECISIONS IN ANGER
Anger is a natural, emotional expression of the human body much like every other emotion, as a reaction to an unwanted stimulus. It is...
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Nov 18, 20243 min read
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HELPING WITH GRIEF AND BEREAVEMENT
REALITY A MESS In the light of the recent events, we as humans are humbled by the experience of death and bereavement of our loved ones....
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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CYCLE BREAKERS
WHO IS A CYCLE BREAKER? If you have been exposed to traumatic, abusive, homophobic, or patriarchal structures that questioned the very...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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FROM ONE TO ANOTHER
Trigger Warning: S*icide It has been a couple of years since a friend of mine attempted suicide. To the teenager I was then, it meant...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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AN OPEN LETTER TO THE FRIENDS I HAVE LOST
Dear, old friend? Who knew the beginning of the end would be this hard? I’m unsure what to call you but I want to write to you, a piece...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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AN OPEN LETTER TO THOSE WHO MAY BE CONTEMPLATING SUICIDE
To someone who I believe is strong, You may not know me and I may not understand what you’re going through right now, but I am here to...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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CYCLE BREAKERS: A LOVE LETTER
The first homes we inhabited and the first surroundings we were exposed to, decided our privileges and penalties, the kind of...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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LET IT OUT
How long can you hold onto a weak railing with wet hands? How long before it eventually gives away? Where do you run to, when you have...
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Nov 18, 20241 min read
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PATRIARCHY AND PATRIARCHAL NOTIONS: UNDERSTANDING HOW PATRIARCHY AFFECTS OUR DAILY LIVES
What is patriarchy? What constitutes patriarchal notions? The term “patriarchy” is of Greek origin and directly translates to “rule of...
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Nov 18, 20243 min read
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TO MY FELLOW IPL LOVERS
It’s 7:30 pm and I find myself in front of the TV. Regardless of the day I’ve had, I’m a hundred percent tuned into the match, and my...
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Nov 18, 20243 min read
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MEN’S MENTAL HEALTH
TW: Mentions of suicide November is men’s health awareness month. Many difficulties that the male community face are discussed with more...
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Nov 18, 20243 min read
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INTERNATIONAL DAY AGAINST NUCLEAR TESTS
HISTORY On second December 2009, the United Nations General Assembly unanimously settled to observe August 29th as the International Day...
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Nov 18, 20243 min read
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AFFORDABLE COUNSELLING
With the ongoing pandemic, Mental Health has become a priority in almost all areas of life. Stress, depression and anxiety have been on...
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Nov 18, 20243 min read
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WHEN TO SEEK THERAPY
THE QUESTION People are often intimidated, ashamed and sometimes even disgusted to seek therapy or ask for help in turbulent times. Going...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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GENDER ROLES: PART TWO
How do gender roles affect expression of emotions? It is not new that gender roles have played a major role in curbing the freedom of...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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GENDER ROLES: PART ONE
What are Gender Roles? Gender roles are socially accepted roles that are specified for genders with a primary focus on masculinity and...
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Nov 18, 20242 min read
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